Kyon os nikki jehi aawaz da qatal kar ditta janda hai, kyn us rabbb di dataar da qatal kar ditta janda hai…. Oh nannu rooh jisne ajj tak os suraj di loaw wi nai dekhi, kyn usnu kukkhh de ander hi saad ditta janda hai…..Main puchda han es samaaj nu, esde sarmeyadaran nu, ohna de riti riwazaan nu, ki ehi sikhiya hai ohna apne purkhan ton….. Kise nanni rooh di sirf es karke jan le leni ki oh kise di dhee hai, kise di bhaen hai, kise di maa ban sakdi hai, sirf es karke jaan le leni ki oh ikk aurat hai !!
Kyon ohna chote chote te ahem rishtean da qatal kar ditta janda hai, jehde rabb de naye hoye hann.. Es ton wadh beizzati rabb di hor ki ho sakdi hai…Ki fayda fer us agge matthhe tekan da…us e janam dihaade mnanun da, jad us naal wi oppra wartau hi karna hai….Kehnde ne har bende ander rabb wasdda hai, tan eh kiwen mumkin hai ki ikk rabb dujje rabb nu maar reha hai….Rabb ran jaroor mareya janda hai, par rabb wallon nai, ikk manukh wallon, ik shaitan wallon, jis nu wi rabb ne hi jammeya hai….
Kyon oh eh bhull janda hai ke oh apne dam te kujh wi nai…akheer mitti wich jaan paun wala tan oh rabb hi hai…..
Aadmi di zindagi wich aurat di mehtatta main samajh sakda haan…kinna pyaara hunda hai oh maa da rishta, oh bhaen da rishta, oh dhee da rishta,,oh patni da rishta, jisde sahare oh apne pairan te khada hunda hai, ikk changga manukh ban da hai…..
Jaan to oh wi lai sakdi hai, kukkh wich tuhadi jo oh rehndi hai…par oh rabb da roop zindagi wich yakeen rakhdi hai..muafi wich yakeen rakhdi hai….Oh fer wi kurla ke bheekh mangdi hai ehna manukkhta heen lokan nu…jehde ki janam to pehlan hi lingg jaanch kara ke usnu naqaar dinde hann… main dilon benti karda haan ohna nu jehde ki ajehe kamm ch bhagidaar hunde ne, ki shukkar karo rabb da... jehda tusi ajj da din vekhi janne hon...nafrat nu kadh sitto bahar...aap hi nai samjho balki lokan nu vi samjhao...aurat di izzat karo, ashirvaad lao te apne dilan ch thaan deo.... " Long Love Women "
but have you ever been through these situations: dowry- killing, honour- killing, rape, gang-rape, domestic violence against women etc.etc.....?
so, i think before raising voice against female foeticide we need to check whether all women have equal status to men in every field.......(i.e. social, political, industrial etc..). There is only world of glamour where women beat men...n the reason behind that is only men's greed...either money or fame....
so, until and unless, every male member of the society start treating women as men..the situation is going to be worst everyday.......
ssa harjinder ji...i agree with you...but point is...women can not be treated like men...both men and women have their individual characteristics...you can not just compare them...thats why they have their independent existance...ofcourse scene has changed today...women are doing jobs...they are handling businesses...yes they can do it...but they have their own specialities...like men have their...problem arises when u make them look down... for example : when a husband says " okay , I'm the one running the house " what he is doing is letting her down...its not about treating women like men...its more about treating women like women and respect them..
Yah, in today's world, may be you can call it the need of the hour that vrybdy's priorities are changing...thinking is changing...poeple want to become more independent...and thats very correct.....come to the IT industry...Its very unfortunate to say when some girl is getting married, their family members look for guys with more package than what the girl earns...this is when u start the comparison..why do you expect the guy to earn more than the gal...when relationships are made keeping packages in mind...disbalance is boud to happen....I don't understand those people..they just talk big...do nothing...both men and women need to change their thinking..respect each other for what they are... when you make someone feel superior, he/she can ofcouse make u feel inferior.. what do you say harjinder ji...we can take others opinion on this as well ?
your concern is really praiseworthy.....i was thinking on another point of view...i.e treatment with the girls /women by men. That is a different topic i think. I can provide the facts how women are treated even in so called modern world......
I totally understand what are you trying to say harjinder ji..I appreciate your concern....but i think somehow they are interlinked..and i was trying to find that link... :) es topic te discussion lambi hundi jani ae... :P
anywz its great to have ur company here...maan bakshan lyi dhannwaad... :)
Deepak Ji - Thanks for your posting! It's an issue very close to my heart. I want to work in this area, I am a film maker. Can I communicate with you on my email - madhu.happy@gmail.com
Sat Sri Akaal Madhu ji... Its because of great people like you that our society still stands somewhere. Live presentations can do wonders than just talking.. I'll feel honored if i can contribute to this... I'll add you on my gmail id : deepakarora89@gmail.com
Deepak veer bahut vadhia likhia e tusi is vishe bare ,.....
its social evil which fatal the humanity ..........we need growth in thinking n STOP comparision between Male and Female ..........Now, women are able to do any thing on this earth .........thanx lot
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